The Arizona Graffs

Mary Poppins, Early Anniversary Date

2010-02-26T15:11:00.002-07:00

So I will eventually catch up, but since I have been on and off sick this week, I figured I could update. We went and saw Mary Poppins in the theater over the weekend. It was so awesome. It was a pretty crazy day to start, Aimee's game was almost rained out. ( I could have stopped since the rain and wind and cold, made everyone freezing including me, the Ref) and then grocery shopped, our typical Sat. Since I had a sinus infection feeling in my head, I wanted to rest before hand, then we left about 5 till 11. We went to Chili's and had a great dinner and I stayed within my points, yeah me. Mark was not bored during the play, and actually enjoyed himself. I love that we try and find something special and unique to do for our Anniversary most years. Here are some pics My sister spoofed up for us. Enjoy!

Happy New Year ( for some)/ RIP Rico

2010-01-01T15:25:00.005-07:00

Happy 2010
We have enjoyed spending the last few days of the year in CA visiting with my family. I saw my maternal grandparents. My grandmother was recently diagnosed with blood cancer, yet has been recovering well and as of the last test has no more tumor growths. Christmas was fun with my Dad and his new wife Meg and her daughter Annie (from Nor-Cal) We went on a double date to Universal City Walk with Rayna and Travis, spent some time with my mom and Jesse. Visited with Mark's sister and my family Friend the Westover's in Corona seeing a recently returned missionary.But as we start off the new year, it starts on a sad note, we lost our dog Rico to an unforeseen accident and with too expensive vet bill, had to put to sleep on Dec 30. I'll spare you all the gory details, but he was run over by my father's jeep, he ran under the back tire and got pretty banged up but seems alright. So this year will be different but as I write this (2/26) almost 2 months ago we still think about him, but we just think about getting a new one once we move into a house. So here is to our family and Rico. We love you all.

CMA Awards & Daughtry performs

2009-11-12T09:10:00.003-07:00

Mark and I have been impressed every time Chris Daughtry sings, from the first day we saw him on American Idol back in 2005. We even had a chance to see him in concert last year for our anniversary. With his 2nd CD " Leave this town" he does a duet with country music legend Vince Gill, in which they performed live for the first time their hit song "Tennessee Line". This song has made a huge impact on my personal life. The story basically talks about wanting to run away from problems, and yet realizing that in order to really "fix things" you have to face them. Its a song about wanting forgiveness and truly desiring to change. I'd like to share the lyrics with you all. Music is an important part in my life and it seems I really respond to music, even spiritually. Such things as marrying Mark, and other important change I needed to make in my life to make it right... you get the picture. Here is the lyrics Enjoy!

Tennessee Line Lyrics

I open my lungs
To breathe in forgiveness and love
Haunting me now, reminders of how I used to be
I know down the road
My troubles are sure to follow
Looking out the window
Hell if I know where I will go
So I will just keep on driving

On my way to L.A.
Looking into the rear view
As the roads fade away
Sworn off my past
The first and last bad call that I ever made
Tell me how to make right
Every wrong turn I've learn
That this can all end tonight
Tennessee line just changed my mind
It's my heart I'll follow this time

Who would've known
That pride is so hard to swallow
As I rest on the shoulder of a road
Growing colder, with the trouble on I own
Should I just keep on driving

On my way to L.A.
Looking into the rear view
As the roads fade away
Sworn off my past
The first and last bad call that I ever made
Tell me how to make right
Every wrong turn I've learned
That this can all end tonight
Tennessee line just changed my mind
It's my heart I'll follow this time

I know I must be doing something right
Head the other way back to where I started out
Ask myself if I can turn it all around tonight
And stop living with doubt

On my way to L.A.
Looking into the rear view
As the roads fade away
Sworn off my past
The first and last bad call that I ever made
Tell me how to make right
Every wrong turn I've learned
That this can all end tonight
Tennessee line just changed my mind
It's my heart I'll follow this time

Halloween 2009

2009-11-05T20:33:00.011-07:00

Well I know it has been a LONG time since I have posted anything on here, but at least I can say I have kept myself very busy. Between summer vacationS, funerals, and school, we have been just trying to stay out of the Arizona Heat. I will be posting back posts, so if u want to see what we have done throughout the summer just look at our old posts.
Halloween was fun this year, we had it spread out over about 4 days. Wednesday we had a combined Halloween party trick or treating among the classrooms. Thursday the local grocery store had a little trick and treat and games throughout different areas in the store. And Sat we went to a co-worker from Mark's work and had a BBQ and little carnival games. Then we raced home and met friends and neighbor, and went into nice neighborhood, and we should have weighed the booty, but if u can imagine those plastic pumpkins you use to trick or treat with, there was about a inch left from the top full of Candy. Good thing we wore them out they only wanted to go to bed and not eat a bunch of candy, it made separating it much easier.

So time for Costume explanations: Aimee wore a pink princess like dress, and ended up becoming a much toned down version of Glenda the Good witch from Wizard of Oz.
Emily had wanted to be a witch since Oct 1, and was afraid to put green makeup on her face, enjoyed wearing the hat and carrying her broom. Cady was Dorothy, and only by luck. We ended up at a grand opening goodwill, and they were advertising Halloween costumes, and so we went in to see what we could find, found a broom for $2 for Emily, and then found a perfect dress for Cady that had no stains or tears. I later found some red ruby shoes at Target to truly complete the ensemble. So we assumed the Dorothy cast, but it ended with the girls. I was a Nurse/Doctor and Mark was an Awesome Dad.
More pictures at :

1930 Marital test

2009-04-05T09:28:00.001-07:00

I guess I am ok, but there are many things I lack... oh well At least for noe Mark still loves me anyways

As a 1930s wife, I am
Superior

Take the test!

Enjoy!

Happy 7 year Anniversary

2009-03-22T08:17:00.008-07:00

Well, Today is Mark and I's 7 year anniversary. It fitting to actually blog on this day, We were able to go on a 6 hour long date. We went horseback riding in the morning, went to Texas Road house for lunch and we going to try and hit baseball game, but never made it, so we just went to a few stores and browsed with no kids. We have decided(with my initial encouraging)to start yearly goals to make our marriage better. We decided this year we are going to refocus on "falling back in love". Not that we don't love each other right now, but the concept of being "in love" I think most couples fall out of , especially has families are created and life moves forward, we all tend to fall into habits and most of the time the marriage tends to get scooted under the rug, until problems arise. We are wanting to avoid the possible problems, by taking control ourselves. So basically try and do something little to show the other person you are important to me today and I love having you be apart of my life. I guess I wanted to have our next years of marriage be stronger then the first few. Since we are done having children, we can focus on other areas of our lives, like enriching the lives of our children and one another.
One small note:
Mark, I am so grateful to have such a special Man in my life, who honors his priesthood, is loyal to his job, respects his wife and cherishes his children. Even though we have had our share of trials, we have managed to not let it affect our marriage permanently. Lets make the next few years even better.

Here are some pics from our little date! Enjoy!

Cady my 'Baby Beluga'

2009-03-06T11:54:00.007-07:00

This is a song by Raffi, that I have started to sing to Cady when ever she is in the bath and I happen to join her... or if she is by herself and its just me and her in the bathroom, It is so cute and brings back such fond memories of my childhood. She is such a great ending and completeness to our family. She is so cute, she likes to be independent but doesn't fight too long and is a very affectionate child, always giving hugs and kisses to everyone. I love my little baby girl who will soon turn 2 and hit all the fun stages of toddler-hood.
She is also in Love with Dora, except she just says " DAAA" which we know to be Dora, and she gets VERY excited whenever it comes on... We bought her a little Dora doll that has a few musical things that she sleeps with, since her baby TAD is not working very well anymore ( it has lasted 3 kids). She has moved up in the world, since we moved she has been sleeping in the bottom bunk of the bunk beds and we have one o those gates up and she loves it, and lately Emily has been 'sleeping over' in Aimee's room on the floor and So she has had the room all to herself, she does so well. She stays in her bed, we even have a plastic slide toy in their room, but she stays in her bed and is happy there.
I wanted to make a post about her since she is my last baby and I am cherishing the little things and so this post is basically about that.I hope you enjoy my sweetheart as much as I do. I love you so much Cady and very happy you are in our family.

Happy valentines Day!!

2009-02-14T14:32:00.002-07:00

Just wanted to tell everyone to have a happy Valentines day and hope everyone behaves themselves... We love you... More pics from the Wildworld zoo soon.

A stimulus check, is it free money or are their strings attached

2009-01-27T12:51:00.002-07:00

With regard to the Stimulus package trying to be rushed through the house, here are the numbers broke down that your will not hear on the news:

( I mainly wanted to get this down, so in a year or 2 when we are in worse situations, I want to see how close it came to the proposed amounts)

Try not to blink too much at the number of zero's that are not shown in these estimates!

Glen Beck explains:
What is the money being spent on-general breakdown between infrastructure, tax cuts, etc…?

Some highlights of the package, by the numbers:

• $825 billion total (as of 1/15/09)
• $550 billion in new spending, described as thoughtful and carefully targeted priority investments with unprecedented accountability measures built in.
• $275 billion in tax relief ($1,000 tax cut for families, $500 tax cut for individuals through SS payroll deductions)
• $ 90 billion for infrastructure
• $ 87 billion Medicaid aid to states
• $ 79 billion school districts/public colleges to prevent cutbacks
• $ 54 billion to encourage energy production from renewable sources
• $ 41 billion for additional school funding ($14 billion for school modernizations and repairs, $13 billion for Title I, $13 billion for IDEA special education funding, $1 billion for education technology)
• $ 24 billion for "health information technology to prevent medical mistakes, provide better care to patients and introduce cost-saving efficiencies" and "to provide for preventative care and to evaluate the most effective healthcare treatments."
• $ 16 billion for science/technology ($10 billion for science facilities, research, and instrumentation; $6 billion to expand broadband to rural areas)
• $ 15 billion to increase Pell grants by $500
• $ 6 billion for the ambiguous "higher education modernization."

[Source: Committee on Appropriations: January 15, 2009]

Here is a further breakdown of the package:

NOTE: The following are highlights of the package; for the full 13-page summary from the Appropriations Committee, click here:

(as of 1/15/09)

Energy
$32 billion: Funding for "smart electricity grid" to reduce waste
$16 billion: Renewable energy tax cuts and a tax credit for research and development on energy-related work, and a multiyear extension of renewable energy production tax credit
$6 billion: Funding to weatherize modest-income homes

Science and Technology
$10 billion: Science facilities
$6 billion: High-speed Internet access for rural and underserved areas

Infrastructure
$30 billion: Transportation projects
$31 billion: Construction and repair of federal buildings and other public infrastructure
$19 billion: Water projects
$10 billion: Rail and mass transit projects

Education
$41 billion: Grants to local school districts
$79 billion: State fiscal relief to prevent cuts in state aid
$21 billion: School modernization ($15.6 billion to increase the Pell grant by $500; $6 billion for higher education modernization)

Health Care
$39 billion: Subsidies to health insurance for unemployed; providing coverage through Medicaid
$87 billion: Help to states with Medicaid
$20 billion: Modernization of health-information technology systems
$4.1 billion: Preventative care

Jobless Benefits
$43 billion for increased unemployment benefits and job training.
$39 billion to support those who lose their jobs by helping them to pay the cost of keeping their employer provided healthcare under COBRA and providing short-term options to be covered by Medicaid.
$20 billion to increase the food stamp benefit by over 13% in order to help defray rising food costs.

Taxes

Individuals:

*$500 per worker, $1,000 per couple tax cut for two years, costing about $140 billion.
*Greater access to the $1,000-per-child tax credit for the working poor.
*Expansion of the earned-income tax credit to include families with three children
*A $2,500 college tuition tax credit.
*Repeal of a requirement that a $7,500 first-time homebuyer tax credit be paid back over time.

Businesses:

*An infusion of cash into money-losing companies by allowing them to claim tax credits on past profits dating back five years instead of two.
*Bonus depreciation for businesses investing in new plants and equipment
*Doubling of the amount small businesses can write off for capital investments and new equipment purchases.
*Allowing businesses to claim a tax credit for hiring disconnected youth and veterans

[Sources: Associated Press: Highlights of Senate economic stimulus plan; January 23, 2009; WSJ: Stimulus Package Unveiled; January 16, 2009; Committee on Appropriations: January 15, 2009]

Here comes Socialism

2009-01-23T07:00:00.005-07:00

(Please forgive my political rant, I will post a nicer, blog soon, but I had to get this out)
Well, as the historic inaugural day approached, I was mainly unimpressed by the media's obsession with the event. But I found myself brought to tears a few times during the actual "swearing in". Not because of Obama, but because of what it signified the dignified way our country transfers over power. I love our country and I love this land of freedom. I am deathly afraid of what will happen when radical people become leader and are given close to " unlimited power".
I turn to the scriptures to justify my opinion, and try to find a way to cope with the present situation
From the New testament

22) For in those days there shall also arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch, that, if possible, they shall deceive the very elect, who are the elect according to the covenant. Matt 24:24 (JSH-M 1:22)

Matt. 7: 15
15) Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

And from the Book of Mormon

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2 Ne. 25: 18
18) Wherefore, he shall bring forth his words unto them, which words shall judge them at the last day, for they shall be given them for the purpose of convincing them of the true Messiah, who was rejected by them; and unto the convincing of them that they need not look forward any more for a Messiah to come, for there should not any come, save it should be a false Messiah which should deceive the people; for there is save one Messiah spoken of by the prophets, and that Messiah is he who should be rejected of the Jews.

4 Ne. 1: 34

34) Nevertheless, the people did harden their hearts, for they were led by many priests and false prophets to build up many churches, and to do all manner of iniquity. And they did bsmite upon the people of Jesus; but the people of Jesus did not smite again. And thus they did dwindle in unbelief and wickedness, from year to year, even until two hundred and thirty years had passed away.

Now a lot of those scriptures scare me, because they seem very similar to our day. Listening to Rush Limbaugh lately for words of advice and understanding, I was moved by a unplanned monologue he gave in response to a caller comparing his listeners to the followers of Obama. Here is the exert:

Here's the problem...I don't run the country. I'm not trying to tell people, I'm not trying to come up with policies that are going to require people to live the way I damn well want 'em to. I'm not the one coming up with plans telling them what they can do and when they can't do it, how much they have to give me, Obama, to make sure everybody else is happy. I'm taking nothing from anybody. I'm giving nobody anything. I cannot raise their taxes. I cannot redistribute their wealth. I cannot deny people their earnings. I cannot rearrange society. I cannot proclaim this group of people unfair and those people need to be gotten even with. I can't pick winners and losers in this country. I can't tell you that you deserve to lose some so somebody else can win some. Obama has that power, and, my brother, he wants that power, he wants to be able to pick winners and losers.
I deal in ideas. I inspire people to think. I inspire people to be positive and optimistic because I believe that's the way life is enjoyed, and that's the way people get things done. Obama is inspiring people to sit down and wait for help from Washington. I already see what has happened to a whole population of people who have been for 50 years, sitting around and waiting for help from Washington. Their families are destroyed. They are single mothers, they are drug-infested neighborhoods in which they live in, and they have no hope. Because for 50 years they have been sitting around and waiting for help from Washington. And every four years they complain about the lack of help from Washington arriving. And the people promising the help from Washington, blame it on people like me because we are racist, sexist, bigot, homophobes who are holding those people who need help from Washington back. I seek no power over people. I seek people to have and own their own power and their own confidence and their own optimism. I seek to have people realize that they live in the greatest country on earth and it's the greatest country on earth because of them, not a single figure, not a personality, not a celebrity, not a single hero.This country is an idea that is bigger than any mortal individual. I can punish nobody. I cannot reward anybody. I cannot close a prison
where terrorists are housed and let them go and call it national security. I cannot meet with Hugo Chavez or Mahmoud Ahmadinejad and claim, in doing so, that I'm making them my friend. I can't do anything Obama can do. I don't want that kind of power. That kind of power invested in one person who believes he has it scares the hell out of me. And you compound that fright with the fact that so many people do not have the guts, the strength, the education to resist the tug of popular sentiment, and we have a nation of lemmings believing lie after lie after lie, myth after myth after myth, liberal idea, failed liberal idea, failed liberal idea after failed liberal idea. I don't compel anything. I don't try to confuse people.
I simply turn on the Golden EIB Microphone and share my honest passions and beliefs with people. And they're free to go elsewhere. They're free to ignore; they're free to believe; they're free to be entertained, I don't care. They're free to do whatever they want. But a lot of people aren't free to smoke cigarettes where they want; they're not free to drink where they want; they're not free to eat the kind
of food they want to eat; they're not free to eat trans fats; they're not free to drive certain places. Pretty soon we're going to be told what kind of cars we have to drive. I can't cause that. I can't restrict anybody's freedom. We've elected a guy who can, does, and wants to, all under the guise of saving us. So I appreciate the effort, and I appreciate somewhat losing my temper here. But don't compare me ever to an authoritarian who thinks so little of people that without him they can barely breathe on their own. Don't ever do that.

A similar article on Originally Published on Wednesday January 21, 2009 by disk morris, goes into more detail about the socialism aspect

Well I can not stop my thoughts, from thinking about WW2 and Nazi Germany. Those who know me well, know I really love WWII genre and especially Nazi stuff, Not that I like it, I am just intrigued by just act being allowed to take place, So I study it as much and often as I can. Anyways, I have been seeing a very similar situation take place on our country and over the last few years take place that reminds me of Germany just before Hitler came to power. I see the similarities in this, the German people were left destitute from WWI, they were in a type of depression all on their own. Left embarrassed by the Treaty of Versailles, and left with little to no hope for their future. So Here come Hitler, and he speaks, well, has radical ideas, creates a scapegoat to Germany's problems, and slowly infests his way to total dictatorship. And with that power, became one of the scariest people on the planet ever to live. and then proceeded to kill between 9-11 million people. The German people were desperate for a leader and just wanted a better life for their families and their country and Hitler gave that to them in many ways.
Now Obama has killed anyone or even said he would, but I see the same similar early beginnings of the same things. Our economic situation is scaring being into submission and are making judgments based on emotion and not their minds. Hitler killed intellectuals and thinkers, cause they were considered a threat. I wonder if Obama would do anything similar by forcing people to lose or cloud their intellect. He is promising the world and many are buying into it. He wants to take our liberties away, he wants to make our country vulnerable to attack, just to impress other Countries leaders. He wants to put everything we hold morally right in the trash. And wants to put anyone that opposes him in the dark, in order to boost his popular ego.
I feel we should not just sit back and Put all Our trust in the Lord, as u can see from my previous scriptures, The Lord says beware of those that seek to deceive you, and he will not just step in and fix things, he gave us free agency and we have to live with our choices, I myself am not completely sure what to do, but I do know I will not let myself get complacent and just sit back and watch the country fall into another Nazi Germany. If anyone knows of ways we can help fight the wave of liberalism.
I guess My hope would be that If we can solidify that Christ centered foundation in our lives and those of our families, that The Lord will bless our families despite the world around us. Keep the faith, but don't let down your guard.

Scrubbing Bubbles

2009-01-13T10:25:00.002-07:00

Automatic Shower Cleaner - Cleans your shower with the touch of a button

SO I have been wanting to try this product out, since seeing the commercial on TV, and when we were shopping last weekend, we went to try and find it. Luckily it wasn't that much $12.96. and the refill bottle was 3.50, ( for future reference). So we bought one, and I LOVE IT. I can not say enough good things about it. So far anyways, it leaves the bathroom smelling so nice and clean. and it gives me a sense of relief, knowing that the shower junk that collects during normal use, is being prevented, by having a daily cleaning. I know it is a little bit more pricey then a bottle of cleaner which would last months, but for the worry and hassle freedom, it gives me, is WAY worth it. I think everyone needs one in their home, so it one less thing to clean. And since I'm not the best cleaner, this is one way for one thing to stay extra clean.

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Happy New Years!

2009-01-01T17:22:00.003-07:00

Gratitude and Blessings, that in those 2 short words could sum up our year. With our Big move from Marysville, CA to Queen Creek, AZ in the first part of January. We were so blessed to have good friends that were wanting and willing to rent their home to us for the majority of this year. The move created a snow ball effect of positive changes and habits into our life.

Mark- Enjoys his new office colleagues and the new environment. He feels more valued and appreciated, thus a Happier Husband after work. His company was bought out, which ended up benefiting us, but didn’t help in his long drudging 100 mile a day commute. Mark’s parent’s got their mission call to Guatemala City, and left in mid Aug. Emotional, but thanks to Skype, its bare able.

Maren- Started out the year finishing her last class online, and finally earned her Associates. Waiting to get residency to finish AZ requirements to continue the RN courses and get her certificate. Worked on being a Mom, Cooking more, started working out for over 2 months, eating better, budgeting, things that we should have been doing our whole marriage.

Aimee- Had a few months off the first half of the year from school. Started Kindergarten in July, and loves it. Lost her first 2 teeth. She loves being a big Sister to her ever growing little sisters, or like we tend to nickname the younger girls “young padawans”.

Emily- Has finally become Potty trained, after a year of trying and several attempts. It finally happened. (Oddly enough, same age as her older sister) Loved having her alone time with Mom and her baby sister “Cady”. Loves to play with the dog, outside and talk to anyone.

Cadyn- “Cady” Turned 1 in June and loves being mobile. She is such a ham, loves making everyone smile. She Loves mega blocks. She can already build with Lego’s and she was barely a year. Sleeps and eats great. We are very blessed so far to have the last child be such an angel, let’s see how long that lasts (daddy already is seeing it slip away).

Rico- Loved having a friend for 6 months. And became a house dog, due to the long lasting AZ heat, ( 8 months).
We wish all of you a great New years. We really didn’t get a chance to really get into the holiday spirit this year, due to the move, but we know the Lord loves us and is always ready to assist and bless our lives, when we are ready to ask. We wish you all the best. We can be contacted by email, blog, facebook, or phone.
Happy Holidays and Happy New Years
Mark, Maren, Aimee, Emily, and Cady Graff

P.S. I am very aware of My eyes and How scary they look, but its the only pic where I was in it, smiling and looking decent. Sorry for the nightmares, in advance.

P.S. S. This is our Yearly Newsletter, just incase anyone was interested.

TAG ABOUT YOUR HUBBY :)

2008-11-19T12:10:00.005-07:00

*What is your husband’s name: Mark Graff
*How long have you been married? 6 years 7 months and 3 days! (But who's counting)
*How long did you date? Well that a long story, from our first date to our wedding date it was 1 year 4 months, but to say we dated that whole time is not exactly correct. But from our first date to our engagement it was 11 months.
*How old is he? 32
*Who eats more sweets? we both do, even though he wants me to stop buying them to tempt him, I have the self control and he doesn't like to be tempted.
*Who said I love you first?he did
*Who is taller? Mark
*Who can sing best? I do by a long shot, even though I have teased him, he likes to sing.
*Who is smarter? I would say for book smarts, I think I am, but he is very good at the things he takes an interest in.
*Who does laundry? Me, he helps sometimes if I need it.
*Who pays bills?I do
*Who sleeps on the right side? Mark does, its been that way most of our marriage
*Who mows the lawn? no lawn soon ( Thank goodness),But Mark would, but I have on a few occasion and surprised him and did the yard all by myself.
*Who cooks dinner?Mark does.. but I am trying harder to do more, HE was taught by the best.
*Who drives? Mark, but I like to share the load if we have a long trip.
*Who is first to admit they are wrong? I say me, but Mark would say its just to quit the fighting and that I am just paying lip serivce.
*Who kissed who first? he kissed me!!
*Who asked who out first? It was him, but our first date, was supposed to be a group thing, and we ended up being the only ones going, but since he paid I consider it our first date.
*Who wears the pants? I do, but I am trying to find a size that fits him and that I can't wear.

I'll tag Laura Keith, Joy, Becky, Jenna, Rebeca, K, and Ashley....

I love you baby! I keep counting my blessing everyday that I have you in my life. Thanks for sticking around and loving me so far.

Halloween and Historic elections

2008-11-05T08:55:00.004-07:00

So I thought I'd share some Halloween Pics, But I thought I'd share my own thoughts with the election results. I have really mixed feelings about the results of President, but I am very happy the marriage amendments in Florida, California and Arizona. I am very pleased with the citizens of those states, that they banned together to keep marriage the Way Heavenly Father created it. But I still feel uneasy by Obama's election, and all the lies said by the campaign and the media. Lets just hope we all can recommit to making our own homes and families strong despite the world's persuasions. If we stay close to the Lord, he will not forget his children and will help us get through these last days.

My little Girl all grown up

2008-10-21T10:26:00.004-07:00

So this past Wednesday, Aimee's school had an award assembly and she received 2 awards. It was very exciting for Cady, Emily and I to cheer for her... to the point of embarrassment for the volume. She received one for Perfect attendance and on the Principal's Honor roll. and this week she was Star of the Week. She also went on her first field trip on Fri. Lots of exciting things for her. Its great to see she is really enjoying School. The coolest thing is to see what she is learning. Her favorite book to read at home is "Hop on Pop" to the point that she almost can read the whole thing with no errors. pretty scary if you can ask me. My little girl reading and recognizing words. its so fun to see her mind work.

I'm Tagged, now your IT!!

2008-10-06T06:56:00.003-07:00

A-Z Tagged

A- Attached Or Single: Attached
B- Best Friend: Mark
C- Cake Or Pie: Cake first
D- Day Of Choice: Friday
E- Essential Item: Chapstick, and a good pen
F- Favorite Color: BLUE
G- Greatest Accomplishment: marrying in the temple, and climbing Mt. Whitney at age 12
H- Hometown: Lancaster, CA
I- Indulgences: Chocolate-covered anything
J- January Or July: July, It's beach time
K- Kids:3 girls
L- Life is Incomplete without: family, friends, and little touch of fun
M- Marriage Date: March 22, 2002
N- Number of Siblings: 2 sisters (2 step-sisters, and 5 step-brothers)
O- Oranges or Apples: Oranges
P-Phobias or Fears: falling backwards, and something happening to my spouse or kids.
Q-Quotes: Do, or do not, There is no try!
R- Reason to Smile: being able to walk and my family
S- Season: Fall
T- Tag five friends: Alyssa, Joy, Laura, and Becky, and Kelly L.
U-Unknown Fact about Me: I'm a pretty open book, but I can't stand being alone or doing nothing for the majority of the time.
V- Very favorite store: Old Navy, if I had to pick a store, that's nice
W- Worst Habit: biting fingernails, but I have others, I don't want to mention...
X- X-ray or Ultra sound: Ultra Sound
Y-Your Favorite Food: Chicken Parmesan, or pizza
Z- Your Zodiac sign: Taurus

Aimee's 2 week break

2008-10-02T13:30:00.004-07:00

Well Aimee has enjoyed her 2 week break and I actually didn't mind having her home again, hanging out with me. She is a great help, with Cady especially. Emily has enjoyed her playmate and partner in crime. But I thought I'd get some "non-naked pics" of my girls so no pedifile will pick up on my blog. We watched Law and Order SVU last night and It really bothered me, so I am going to delete the pics on that site, just to keep their sanctity. I am looking forward to Conference this weekend. Especially with the economy and the political mess I hear everyday, I wonder if they will say anything regarding it, besides the stuff we have heard before. But it makes me think, they have been preaching, stay of of debt, save money, have food storgae and if u just look around , its for times like these, not necessarily for times of natural disaaster, but economic disaster as well. With Mark's and I decision to move closer to work and be in a smaller apartment, we are really trying to simplify our life, and save what we can. Which I think the Lord is aware of our needs, and is so far blessing us in that decision. It will be hard going from the luxurys of living in a house, whether u rent or own, to an apartment, but I think Our family needs it, and needs to be unified especially under these times. I just hope the Lord can continue to bless us in our efforts and give us the strength to endure the temptations that may lie in wait for us.
Well on a lighter note, as far as My exercise commitment, I have been going every weekday since July 21 ( minus a few days here and there for sick kids, or me sick), and have officially lost 7lbs and counting. My eating is still being curtailed, but I think I needed to get " in shape" before any weight was going to be lost, My endurance was pretty pathetic and now I can burn over 400 cal on the treadmill in 30 mins. Which my goal when I stated that first month was at least 100 cal. So the past few weeks, I have seen the scale continue to drop, almost on its own. Which is such a nice thought. But I am losing a few inches here in there, but I don't really see it yet, but I am getting more flabby, in the areas of great need, so there is hope there. Mark and I might start up Atkins after we move just to jump start his weight loss, but we'll see. Till next time and hopefully an another wight loss update.

The CHOSEN

2008-09-25T18:35:00.003-07:00

We feel inspired to share this with you, enjoy.

Moving on up

2008-09-17T13:55:00.005-07:00

We actually not really moving up according to theworld's standards, but it is north of where we live now. We got approved for an apartment that is 2 miles form Mark's work. Its a little small, but I think we will manage, it will at least keep costs down. We are so grateful for the many blessing we receive daily, like small things like looking for an apartment, and having a steady job, and our health. Hopefully we can be back in a house sometime in a not so distant future, but for the mean time, we hopefully can get some things taken care of. The girls are having fun with whatever they happen to choose to play with at the time. I'll include some "racy" pics of my artists. We will be sad to leave an awesome ward, but I know the friends I have made, will benefit me in the years ahead. Thanks to all of you.

Missionaries

2008-08-26T14:07:00.004-07:00

I would like to take a minute and talk about the great calling of Missionaries. Not the typical 18 and 21 year old, but the mom's and dad's, and grand parents, and great grandparents, who go out and serve the Lord. My wonderful in-Laws entered the MTC yesterday for a 23 month long mission. I am so grateful to have them part of my life, they have helped Mark and I in countless ways, that its hard to comprehend sometimes. They have raised a great son, who I love more then anything in this world. He treats me so well, and has such respect for his parents, I'm in awe every time I witness it. He truly was..." born of goodly parents." The entire Graff family, I know will be blessed as their Parents and grandparents serve the Lord in Guatemala. I have never been in a family that was able to receive the blessings from having a missionary go out and serve. So I am wondering what the Lord has in store for us in these next 2 years. Mom and Dad are such great examples to us, and it would be so good of us to follow in their footsteps. I know I look forward to the time Mark and I will go, since I never served a mission. We will miss seeing them and talking to them, but thank goodness for emails, we will be able to get updates on their progress. Speaking for our family, we will miss them greatly and I know the kids will too. My only hope is my Cady will remember them in 2 years since she is only 14 months old.

A Day of First's

2008-07-22T20:28:00.002-07:00

Aimee's First Day at school

First Tooth lost all in the first 24 hours of being a Kindergartener

Well it has been longer then I'd like since my last post, but I've been real busy with family and company. In my next post I will post multiple slide shows, briefly telling whats been going on the last 2 months, but Today I wanted to Post since it was first day of school, and My sweet hunny's birthday, and he got to go to a company paid for Baseball game, so someone upstairs was looking out for him, even though he didn't get to share his exact day with his family, he did get to do what makes him the happiest, and thats baseball. I love you baby and 32 is pretty old, but you don't act it. I have also begun my first steps to a new me, and I know I have claimed changes before, but this time, I have actually done my homework and I have a friend that is really helpful in getting me to my goals. She is kicking my butt, but since I haven't had a good butt wuppin for awhile, Its not too bad. Besides, when did a little butt wuppin hurt anyone. Well we'll see I'll check back in about a month and give my stats hopefully they are worth sharing, but I am so sore right now, that I don't want to have to redo this again, I want this to be my last time I am sore for days on end.

Degree's

2008-06-26T14:17:00.002-07:00

So, I recieved my long awaited 2 year degree in the mail yesterday. I didn't think much of it, when I was waiting for the arrival. But after it came and I opened, I felt a huge relief, and then a feeling of joy. I actually earned a Degree, an Associate in Science. I didn't think it would ever truely happen, its been so long since I started and has been delayed so many times and had lots of complications. So its a great feeling to have accomplished something like a degree, at the same time as raisng 3 wonderful daughters. I just wanted to share this with all of you. I am grateful to be able to continually develop my talents and mind. I am truely blessed with a supportive husband, and now I get to wait to start the nursing program untill he finishes his license, so I will be supportive now for him. and I can spend more time with my girls before they start school.

My baby turned 1

2008-06-13T14:06:00.003-07:00

So My little baby turned 1 last sunday, and yes of course I wanted to do a little birthday thing, even though for a 1 year old its just about the cake and the wrapping paper, oh wait, isn't that the same for grandma's too! She loved her cake and enjoyed the few gifts we got her from her grandparents. I wanted to share some pics of the event so I didn't forget before Father's day.
Its sad and Its fun to have your infant grow up, I guess its fun to graduate to milk from formula and lighten the grocery bill, and be able to sit forward in the car, and be able to stat walking and being more mobile, but as that hits so does the attitude of independence, yet they know they can't but they will try their little hearts out. But I think it will be nice when there is no more diaper changing and no more putting everything on the ground or within arms reach in their mouth stage. But I do look forward to what the future brings as I watch the little daughters of Mine grow up to be bright Young Women.

Getting Older

2008-06-02T06:31:00.005-07:00

Well I have been feeling rather blah the last 4 days, and maybe even today, not sure yet, but we'll see, So as I cut My dear husbands hair this weekend, I noticed something, I didn't think I would notice, and there it was, not one but a patch of gray hair at the base of his hair, intermixed with his blond hair. I was shocked to say the least, He is not quite 32 and already its coming. It only lets me tease him more since I am 6 years younger, and I would always tease, " You old Man" But now he really is, very funny. I apologized, since I think I might have cause the gray hair growth, but I think the kids will cause mine.
Anyways since the last post, we also celebrated Aimee's 5th birthday. It is so weird to think she is getting so big, starts school in less then 2 months. We had the Kings over since those are main friends right now, and just had a little party with cake, pizza and presents. It was quick and The girls helped me decorate a little, so it was nice.

Decorations

Aimee's first present

Barbie from Kings

The Cake

Daddy bringing the cake
Waiting patiently
lame parents forgot candles again, but little birthday girl didn't mind

I have been doing alot of reading, studying, thinking about Improvement. In all aspects of my life alot lately, I have read a book on parenting, marriage, fitness program, and organizing. Its hard to know where to start. I think that's my biggest downfall, I get an idea and I think I must act on it right away, and then I find other things get ignored, and then I get stressed, since I'm not done with my new idea. I want to share with all of you some cool things I've learned, but just not there yet, as far as organizing, I'm still waiting to get a full fledged routine in my life going, I'm working real hard at it, but most of the time I feel overwhelmed, and just take a break, which puts me farther away from my goals. Hopefully I will figure things out soon, I'm hoping when school starts I will be able to establish a good routine for things, since I will have some structure. I seem to work better when I have time restraints, and less efficiently when I have all the time in the world. Like I planned my own wedding while working 2 jobs back to back with 3 hrs in between, but I got it done and I used the time I had efficiently, its been hard trying to do that with the kids, wanting to just play and hang out with them, but always thinking I have something else O could be doing or should be doing. Anyways great Month coming up, I'm sort of excited for the next 2 months, My baby will turn 1 on Sunday, then Father's day, then my Emily will turn 3, and then we travel to CA to visit family for the 4th and then come home and Aimee starts school 10 days later and Then Mark has his birthday the very next day after school starts. so filled up next couple of months. What has got me through the last few years of childbearing is having big goals to look forward to, like baby's being born, trips, family visits...Anything to countdown to, helps me. Maybe it might help you too.

Happy Mother's Day and Birthday with a side order of PCOS!!!

2008-05-12T07:59:00.004-07:00

Our little "Architect in training" riding her new toy

Well I'm late in posting, but oh well This last month has been one of many tests, I have recently been going to my GYN to find out why I have not had "Aunt flow come to visit" Since I have stopped Nursing back in Nov. So they did some tests and blood work and Ultrasounds and found out that I have a condition called PCOS, or Poly cystic Ovarian Syndrome.- mainly means I have lots of cysts on both ovaries. FUN, FUN there are other things related I some hormones levels that are high, insulin, my Uterus has an abnormally thick layer of lining, that has not been shed, every month. Anyways, I had to have an Endometrial biopsy to see if it was cancer or another condition called Hyperplasia. But as of Wednesday, the doc said my results came back normal, so I am on progesterone to stimulate my period, and to help it shed the lining, also taking some diabetic pill, that is supposed to help the insulin level drop, and thus making the hormones return to normal. If u want to look into more about PCOS, here is a great link: http://www.4woman.gov/FAQ/pcos.htm
So with that, I will move onto the weekend. We started the eventful weekend by going on a double date with our friends Jenna and Corey, we went to dinner at Chili's and then went Miniature Golfing, (man we felt so old there), we haven't done that for a very long time. Then Saturday Mark too the girls shopping and I walked around other stores, ALONE, it was great. Then Sunday we went to church and Mark made homemade pizza, which was very good and our favorite Baker's Trifle. I opened presents and we had a enjoyable evening.
It is kinda weird to have Both Mother's day and a Birthday on the same day, but if I wasn't a mom, it would be even weirder. But I am very grateful to my sweet Husband for doing his best to give me such a special day. With young kids, it was put all on him, but it was nice to not have to deal with the kids bickering. I feel so blessed to be granted a honorable priesthood holder, who thinks the world of me and loves me unconditionally, excess baggage and all. I hope all you Mother's out there had a Special day with your family.

"MA MA"

2008-04-28T08:22:00.002-07:00

Those are such plain words in an of themselves, but when spoken by your 10 months baby girl for the first time it just melts your heart. So Saturday we bought the girls an early birthday present, A big swing set, and we started putting it together, it took 8 hrs or so to finish and it was pretty hot, so we were pretty tired. And Mark and I were tired to take the whole family to the store, to get milk, and a few other things, so I told him I'd go and as I walked in the door from the garage, she saw me at the end of the long hall, and she got real happy and took off real fast towards me, and when she got to me, I lowered to a knee and she climbed up on me and said "Ma, Ma", and Mark had walked in right before that, and we both were like, did she just say that. I got tears in my eyes, since both the other girls said da, da first. And so this time, he has been working on " I... Love...Ma ma", instead of da, da, so I'm way stoked that she said that already. and yesterday she was raising both arms up and the giving Mark "High fives", which was way cool. Moments like these make me feel very grateful to be able to be apart of their lives. No wonder our heavenly Father wanted us to experience parenthood, it gives us a small glimpse of how he feels towards us and the happiness it brings to him to see us learn, grow, succeed. I love it.

Having fun with Markers

2008-04-18T09:44:00.003-07:00

So the girls were a little bored I think or too creative, they found a box of highlighters I had in the office, and they decided to make themselves cats for halloween, and then they wanted to go trick or treating, but this is what ended up happening, they not only colored their faces but their bodies as well,( I'm going to try hard to find the clean ones, as in not so fully naked shots) obviously I bathed them, and it mostly came out the next day, but it was all over. Kids will be kids though, at least it wasn't on the walls...count your blessings!!!

Bon jovi video!

2008-04-15T14:11:00.000-07:00

Yes my angle is not the best, but the view was pretty good, since you could get the feel of the whole concert! This one is for you 'Alyssa', and for all the other Bon Jovi fans out there...

I had to put another since it was so good

Daughtry and Jovi Concert review

2008-04-14T13:42:00.000-07:00

Totally awesome, but next time we won't sit so close to the speakers, we were deafened literally till the next day, Mark till last night. They both sounded hot and looked sexy. I'm including some videos of each, the best that I thought
I think everyone needs to experience a rock concert at some point in their life, I'd recommend sooner then later.

Bon jovi and Daughtry in Concert in 48hrs!!!!

2008-04-09T12:05:00.000-07:00

I am so EXCITED to go see Daughtry and Jovi this Friday night, I will post this weekend and tell you all about it. I'm hoping I can get some cool shots or even an up close of him and in my dreams, with him and Mark. or even have something signed
. Anything would be cool. Mark and I love Daughtry he is our favorite singer, we both have other favorites, but we grew to love him together, so its cool that we can share a passion like this. Hope luck favors the desperate...We'll see... Can't wait No kids, rock music, and lots of screaming. What could be better.

Our new Prophet and Motherhood

2008-04-07T10:50:00.000-07:00

Well, I actually was able to watch most of Sunday conference, and I really liked Bro. Ballards, talk about Mother's. I have been reading a book I purchased at last year's Time Out for Couples, called The Parenting Breathkthrough, by Merilee Boyack. It basically talks about how to teach your kids to be independent capable adults, who know how to save and budget money. Alot of it I will use as my girls get older, but a lot of the money things, were good for Mark and I. But I have been really thinking and pondering a lot in the last few weeks about the job of Parenting, and the role and impact it plays on the lives of our children. These sweet spirits, that the Lord has entrusted to us to raise, nurture, teach, love, support, and hopefully build a strong enough foundation to be able to return to live with him. ( Sometimes, I think, what were you thinking Lord, I can't handle this, I barely have my own life in order, and now you want me to be responsible for more souls). But with trying to increase our spirituality in general as a family, couple and personally, it has been on my mind, the majority of my days. I have been making goals and starting new routines with the kids such as chores, FHE, reading the scriptures, and nightly prayers. And I would be doing a good job without the help of a very supportive spouse. But what made me feel real good this morning, was when I was making a bottle for the baby, Aimee was finishing a puzzle on the floor she started last night, and I was singing " I am a Child Of God" The girls watched a little of conference and we had a packet that a friend sent me to do with the kids and that helped keep the girls in the room ands at least hearing the speakers. But Aimee could tell who the prophet was by then end of the morning. We had talked about that at the last FHE and I think she was starting to recall what we were saying. So, despite my shortcomings as a mother, housewife and maid, If my kids grow up with a love for the savior and this gospel, then I will feel very accomplished, and not care that the house wasn't spotlessly cleaned every day.

"LIttle Chef"

2008-03-29T07:34:00.000-07:00

So, Aimee has had a new friend this past week, and his name is "little chef". Any of you who have kids and watch disney movies, knows what movie I'm referring to, I'd hope. She carried him around in her pocket, when she's watching TV, playing outside anything, but she doesn't refer to him at every moment 24/7. But when I catch her involved with some thing, I can see her talking to him and putting him someplace to watch or help her. But what made me curious enough to blog about it, was I thought imaginary playmates, were for children who suffered from "only child syndrome" not from those who are a number in their home. But I guess not, Mark and I just think its cute, and he eggs her on, when she is not listening, or not paying attention to us, he'll say stuff like, " I'll take little chef, and eat him," and she goes beserek, like its real, very powerful is the human mind. So I just wanted to point that cute fact this week. I'm not sure what I should be worried about more, whether or not she has a "imaginary playmate" or the fact that it is a little rat.
Emily has been really successful at potty training this week. I have learned that if I put nothing on her, lower end, then she uses the toilet, if not she goes in whatever is there to catch it, whether it be underwear, pull ups, or a diaper ( yes, I have all three, but who doesn't have that for the potty training transitioning years of a toddler) and once I figured it out, she has been going number 1 and 2 in the toilet, as far as the mornings go, after nap, I put a diaper or pull up on when she sleeps, and she always seems to fill them up and wither go 2 again in there. But I think the concept is working, she has had some accidents, like peeing on chairs... but so far no carpet, just easy to wipe up areas. Count you blessings where and when u can I guess.
Cadyn is still all over the place and crawling pretty quick now, and yes we are calling her "Cady" all the time, I blame Emily, since she started it for me. But she has mastered the art of going from her knees to standing and getting up on furniture, and soon she will want to move across that piece of furniture and then away, crazy how fast they learn those things. But so far she is not climbing up or out of things, just gets up and stands theirs and bounces sometimes.
I have been sick with a cold and a nasty cough, which has affected my voice and my head is congested all the time, so I have not worked out since my little trauma over 2 weeks ago. I want to go back, just waiting for my body to get better, so I'm not huffing and puffing after 2 mins, cause my lungs have crap in them, and I can't breathe in my nose, since its full of crap too. But Mark did go 3 days in a row and takes the kids at least the older ones , so I can have some piece with just the baby, I cleaned one day, vacuuming really well, so it took all of 30 mins, and other stuff. Anyways, the alternator just went out on the Camry, but thank goodness thats all it was, and we had it switched out in like 15 mins. We are becoming pretty good mechanics, the pair of us. I guess it helps that both our first cars were 86/87 Camrys.
We are trying to keep up with our daily reading of the book of mormon with the kids, but some days are better then others. Some days we are too tired, and we simply forget, since we just want to get the kids in bed, and lay down ourselves. Hopefully next week can be better.

I'm DONE!!!!!!

2008-03-21T16:07:00.000-07:00

Well, so much for the Atkins thing, I was doing alright, lost 15 lbs in 2 weeks, and then something happen last Wednesday, that kinda has been a spiral down effect, where its one thing after another. I pulled a muscle in my right shoulder I think Monday night, reaching in the car, as we were driving home, which was out of reach(Mark was driving and I was not, just to clarify) And I believe I heard a pop, but never really hurt that much, so Wednesday comes around and the night before my arm was hurting a tiny bit, but nothing to cause any alarm. So Wednesday morning, I was in the office working on some computer programs mark didn't get to the night before, So as I was fixing things, My chest and shoulder started to really hurt, my first thought, was maybe I was just sore from working out, but I hadn't lifted any weights since the week before, and I did the elliptical for the 2nd time on Monday, but I didn't feel like I over did it. But as the morning went on, My chest was getting more and more tight, and every breath I took was getting harder, it felt like a muscle thing, but I wasn't 100% sure, and my back was hurting, so I was nervous, so I talked to an advice nurse, my dad's friend, and she said that with your family's history, I'd go get checked, and she didn't think it was a heart attack, and deep down , neither did I, But I wasn't sure at this point what was causing all this pain. So I called the Relief Society Pres, and she said she'd be over or someone would be over in a min. So about 5-10 mins later, She is over,a nd since I had not called 911 yet, she called for me. The fire men and para medics were here in like 5 mins, did quick EKG, and said well we can't tell for sure, and we think you should go in via Ambulance. So I did. 2nd time in my life, very weird, they treated me as if I was having a heart attack, even though I was like I'm too young and its on the wrong side of my body. Nevertheless, I didn't have a heart attack, but the doc did do more x-rays, CT scans, blood work and another EKG, so basically they ruled out everything major and sent me home with a prescription for vicodin. after a few days of resting and icing my shoulder. Monday comes around, and as I finish up my H.W. for my last online class to earn my AA, Emily decided to make a run for the border...( I'll tell you the details if u want, I just don't feel like announcing it) and made it home safe and sound, Thank Goodness. Then Tuesday afternoon I feel ac old coming on, and since the kids have all had runny noses and coughs the last few days, I guess it was my turn. So here I am sitting here, just finished my last bit of H.W. and going on my 2nd box of Kleenex, watching DVR'd ER's and wanting nothing more then to take a bath or a nap. So as to say, I quit my diet when I left the hospital, and just writing to feel healthy again to go back to exercising. I haven't gained alot back, just a few pounds, mostly water, probably. Well I'm just glad I am done with this part of my education. Tomorrow is My Sweetheart and I's 6th Anniversary. So hopefully it will be a good day. I'm going to go be a mom again and check on the kids. TGIF

week 1 on Atkins

2008-03-03T11:20:00.000-07:00

So after a weird, hard week on Induction on the Atkins diet, I have managed to lose 9lbs and 3 inches off my waist, 2 inches off my hips, which makes me very thrilled. However I have decided that I will stop Atkins on Sat, after my 2 weeks are through, and start to eat more sensibly, since me and mark are going to to the gym 3 x a week and Pilate's 2x a week at home, I feel that the diet is not the healthiest for you, in term of long term. I was reading in a health book, for the 8week class I'm taking online, to finish up my degree and the chapters I happened to be reading are on nutrition, managing weight and fitness. So after reading most of it, I told Mark I wan to get off Atkins and just eat better. So we'll see. I read about how your body reacts to the Yo Yo dieting, and so I want to set new goals for ourselves, by setting a 5 lb a month loss, if we can manage that. I will be pretty happy. We want to let our bodies work for us, not against us.
I have some other exciting news, I received my first calling in our new ward as a Compassionate service Leader Asst. The Relief Society told me in passing, that she will gives us further instructions soon, and that she wants to assign me all the babies being born. Which in our young ward, that in an of its self, is a huge feat of responsibility. So I am sure I will be very busy. I look forward to getting to know the sisters in the ward and helping them through this fun new experience. wow kinda sound like what I want to do as nurse. The Lord really does act in mysterious ways. Well enjoy and keep checking back for new news from the Graffs

The BIG change

2008-02-27T22:01:00.000-07:00

So in the next post I'll send pics, I promise, well as u can see my blog has changed, and there are other things that are changing since we moved to Arizona. I have committed to lose my baby fat, for good, and so We have all joined the gym ( local YMCA) and have gone a few times a week. I also have started Atkins as of Last SAT the 2/23 and so far I have lost 6lbs already I will probably start to post at least every week, with updates, I don't think I will ever look as good as Kristi. ( Way to go girl) Well Mark has a sucky commute and I hate not seeing him till after 6 every night, but we're getting a schedule down, so we can actually get things done with the little time we have together. Aimee and Emily are little terrors, getting into things, when I turn my back for a second. Hopefully this phase will pass SOON!!!!!! But I think Aimee is just bored with out being able to go to school anymore and has to wait 6 months. Cadyn is my little crawler, she is so cute. My little baby is growing up. She is eating so well and I wanted to throw in a cute pic of these 3 beautiful gifts from heaven. They make me want to pull my toe nails off, but i can't help loving them, they are so cute, Not sure where they got that from, oh Yeah, I forgot they are all little 'MARK'ets, and rightly so, From such a handsome daddy. I love our new life and we are really trying to make good changes to better our life.

New Home In Arizona

2008-01-24T11:06:00.000-07:00

Well, we are slowly unpacking here in the sunshine state, We have painted 2 rooms, the office and the living room, so that allows us to unpack those rooms but not much else, the kitchen is much smaller then what we came from, so we are deciding what to unpack, what to keep in boxes in garage or what to give to DI. Well I'll send pics when I get thing more organized, But I wanted to let you all know we are doing fine and its nice to be in a new home and new area. If you'd like to know our new info like addy and phone #, email me

Talk to you all later
Miss all of you in the great CA

SNOW DAY!!!

2007-12-23T09:59:00.000-07:00

Well I wanted to share with you our first and last family snow day for a long time, we figured hey, might as well go to the snow, before we go live in the deseret, where we are more than an hour away from the snow. Here are a few pics, of our fun.

Mark and Aimee

Maren and Emily

3 girls first time in the snow

Mark going down belly up, with the Rico right behind

Pull Rico, Pull!! Go sled dog

Go Dad and Emily

Daddy with Cadyn on her first sled ride

Moving To Arizona

2007-12-14T14:50:00.000-07:00

Well I guess i can spread the news now, we are for sure moving down to AZ. We will be leaving on the 9th of Janurary, We will be renting our friend's home there for 18 months. It has been a long time deciding what to do with financial problems, and actually after watching an episode n Oprah, I felt an answer to pray with some advice that was given on the show that was going through a similar experience. weird to say that, but its true so w are selling the house and moving out of CA. I hope one day we might be able to return, but for now, I don't want to move again, at least this big untill the girls are done with school. We will miss all of you in the Olivehurst Ward, and our friends we have made living here in Marysville. Its been nice living here, but now we feel we need this change to improve our life, and get rid of the constant stress. I don't want to die at age 30, from a stress related incident. WE love all of you, those we are leaving behind, and its sad to think, but we really have no intentions of even coming back up here, since we have no family close anymore. we will fill you in as we get in the house are details, but leave a post and i'll email you our info.

Happy Mom!

2007-10-17T16:42:00.000-07:00

So this morning started off like a typical morning lately, Got up with the baby to nurse her in bed, then when she woke up, Aimee came in the room and then I heard emily crying through her door, so Aimee let her out and they all jumped on the bed, and then we were playing with cadyn and then emily wanted me to read her a book, So I did and they all watched and were paying attention and I had a great feeling come over me. I was very proud of being a Mom and the great little girls That I was raising. I have been struggling with the role of Motherhood, and it hit me today, this is what it is all about, and That gave me the new focus to try even harder to Be the best Mom I could be for my daughters. I just thought I'd share that with my loved ones, who are all of you out there who read this. I'm glad to be a mom, even though times it is hard, It is worth it. I love you Aimee, Emily, and Cadyn, very much.

Camping over Labor Day weekend

2007-10-15T09:10:00.000-07:00

Yeah I know its been 2 months since I last posted anything, but I have started back to school and taking 2 classes 1 online-medical Terminology, and 1 at the college-Anatomy. So far I'm doing alright-meaning I'm passing with a C in Anatomy, but it might be getting pulled up real soon. Aimee started Preschool this year where she goes 5 days a week in the afternoon. So getting used to that is working better now that i have a routine. Anyways just wanted to post our fun camping trip to Mammoth Lakes-Red's Meadow. The girls all did real well, this was our first camping trip more then just an overnighter with the ward. Here are a few pictures to tell you about our trip.
http://picasaweb.google.com/Mamabear.graff/LaborDayCampingTripWGrandpa

A Wedding, Birthday, and a Baby Blessing!

2007-07-27T15:25:00.000-07:00

SO our trip down South, was fun but very busy, we went to bed exhausted every night. from driving to visiting to chasing the kids down from playing with Grandparents "breakables". But all in all it was good to see family and friends, that we haven't seen in a long time since about christmas time, longer for others.

Hanging with the bride the night before the BIG day, ALL us Sisters, so sweet!!

The Flower girls and their Mom!

The Dad with his beautiful Girls(minus the baby)

Aimee and Her Mommy ( my favorite pic)

The pretty flower girls who were too excited to stand in the line and be pretty...

All 3 sisters, finally all married after 5 years!

The next day we Blessed cadyn in My dad's ward and then afterwards we had a small get together at his Parents house then later that evening we had a birthday cake and presents with my parent at their house

That is a very brief run through, but it was nice to be apart of everything and see so many loved ones.

GO DODGERS!!! TRUE BLUE

2007-07-16T07:33:00.000-07:00

SO are day at the park was a blast, after driving through tons of traffic, we arrived at the top of the 5th inning, great timing, since thats when the Dodgers swept the giants, the score at the end of this inning was 6-0, eventually they scored some more, but in the 12th inning they finally ended the game at 8-7, The 10th win straight against their rivals at AT&T park. To see all our pics go here:
http://picasaweb.google.com/Mamabear.graff/DodgersGiants

But here are a few I especially liked:Papa and Emily in their True Blue attire enjoying garlic fries

Mark and his girls enjoying the Fun!

Happy 4th of JULY!!!!!!!

2007-07-05T13:38:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone's 4th was fun, besides the scorching heat, we rather had a fun day. We went to friends in the ward (who is moving in a week) for lunch, we brought a pool over and the girls really enjoyed that. we later filled it back up at our house in the front yard, in which i sat in, while Mark and Aimee did the fireworks and I took pics. the next blog will be after my postpartum appt, and then the Giants and Dodger Game and then my sister's wedding in SoCal.
Thanks to all of you for your help with the fam, this last little while.

http://picasaweb.google.com/Mamabear.graff/GrandparentsVisitsMoreCadynPics

http://picasaweb.google.com/Mamabear.graff/EmilyS2ndBirthday2007

http://picasaweb.google.com/Mamabear.graff/July20074th

Cadyn's official birth announcement

2007-07-02T14:48:00.000-07:00

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/g/graffbaby3/

This is the website I made as our virtual birth announcement, so go here whenever you want and see updates as well.

Doctors Appt and The FLU

2007-07-02T14:39:00.000-07:00

well We are going on a little over 3 weeks, since little Cadyn arrived and we have all been adjusting great actually. As for her 3 week weight check, on Thursday, she had gained 9 oz ( the doc said after 2 weeks old, they should be gaining at least an ounce a day) so Since she gained more than 7 he said she was doing well. SO I was excited, to say the least, except, she had this nasty little ingrown toenail on her left big toe, right on the top in the middle that I had been watching and trying to rid the puss myself, for a week, and so he gave us a prescription for an antibiotic. Its been weird giving an infant meds, and trying to make sure I don't forget the meds time, plus feeding times, plus normal life, its a bit chaotic. So to say the least, Emily decides to throw up on Thursday in the car, then was fine, then Sat morning Aimee dry heaves 2x takes a long nap and by 12 she is up and driving us crazy. Then by 7 I throw up and have diarrhea. Then Mark gets it Sunday morning and All day we both were laying on the couch taking turns to help with the minimum care of the kids. Thank goodness it is not called the 24 hrs flu for jokes, cause today we feel almost brand new. More to come about the rest of the week with pics

New Pics of Life with Cadyn

2007-06-26T11:02:00.001-07:00

Not doing too bad for her first Bath, good thing her big sis Aimee was in there with her.

Being a cute big sister trying to console her little sis!

Aimee holding "baby Cadyn" right after her first bath

Cadyn's weight issue

2007-06-26T10:48:00.000-07:00

well I wish the circumstances were switched and That I was the one losing the weight, not the baby, but alas, She has managed to keep her weight down in her 1st 2 weeks of life ( I'm trying to be humorous about the subject, so i don't get to down) As of last Thursday, she weighed 6lbs, and 14.1 oz, So the doctor, said to just try and wake her every 2 hrs to feed, and if she doesn't want to cooperate with nursing, then pump and give her that, so we have tried to stick with that, and what do you know, she starts cooperating the minute she got home from the docs, Doesn't always seem that once you go to the doctors, your illness seems to get better, even before the meds start working, weird . So anyways, she is latching on better and is awake more, so I think she will be fine come Thrusday, when we go in for a weight check. I am actually doing well, I feel th worst when I go to bed, because lying flat hurts a ton, so I try not to lay down during the day too much. And my wonderful Husband has been getting up with Cadyn and giving her a bottle, so I can continue recoverying, however, I want to start getting up, to see how I will feel, So I think I will try tonight and see how it goes. I still have my lifting restrictions, of #10 for another month, but the girls seem to be understanding, most of the time. So I also have been working on Family History, and if any of my family has any info I could use, please send it to me, so I can get as many names printed out, so when We get a chance to go to the temple, we will have the names ready.

Cadyn Bailey Graff

2007-06-16T19:36:00.000-07:00

Here is the scoop on our newest edition to our little family She was born on Friday, June 8th 8:02 pm at 7lbs and 14.1oz and 20in long at 36 weeks. The only real complication we ended up having was it took the docs over 20 mins to reach the uterus, and by that point, they had pushed Cadyn out of the way so far, that they had to suction her out. It being my 3rd c-section, my body had built up a lot of scar tissue and made the docs work to get my baby out.
As for Mom and baby, we are doing alright, we are still fighting the whole breastfeeding issue, and I at least just pray that it will come together sooner then later. I think she thinks as long as she gets food she is content.
As for Dad and the girls, they are really enjoying having their baby sister finally here. Dad is working really hard to satisfy the demands of a house of 4 females, I guess he is just getting a taste of the future, Hopefully, we won't give him too much trouble, but as we girls all know that is sometimes beyond our control. But at least he gets to be surrounded by 4 beautiful girls everyday. But I know he can handle it, He already is a really good dad, so I have no worries
that he'll survive, since they all our 'Daddy's little girls' I know he will be happy as soon as I am back to my self, so I can give him a hand, actually he is counting the days...
Since it is Father's day weekend, I think about the great husband and father I have and my daughters have, and how grateful he is the man he is. I love him so much for dealing with me through all the pregnancy and recovery issues I have, and then the girls and work. I don't give him enough credit sometimes, But he is one Awesome Dude, and we would be lost without him. Love all of you and feel free to email, or comment here, to get more personal feedback.

Introducing baby Cadyn

2007-06-10T09:10:00.001-07:00

http://mark.graff.googlepages.com/cadyn

More info I have found on the possible risk

2007-06-05T13:18:00.000-07:00

Here is some more info I found concerning the risks, that are involved right now:

Anterior placentas are extremely common and generally do not cause complications. The exception is if you have had a
prior c/section.

Then, in some cases, the anterior placenta can attach itself to the old
scar in the uterine muscle, a situation called placenta accreta (or
percreta or increta, depending if the placenta goes deeper into the
muscle, or even through the entire uterus, respectively). This can
cause hemorrhage with delivery, necessitating blood transfusion or even
hysterectomy. Fortunately, if you have never had a c/section, this is
quite rare.this site can also be

helpful:http://www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/pregnancy-health/complications/placenta-accreta.aspx

35 week appt w /OBGYN

2007-06-04T21:47:00.000-07:00

Well, for what looks to be my last prenantal appt, it went pretty good. I was told that my cervix had not changed from a 1 cm 2 weeks earlier. So that was good news. Next thing the doctor told me was I have an anterior placenta( if any "medical terms" confuse anyone, Google it), which apparently is not good for a c-section, since it is in front of the incisions area, and that would mean the surgeon cutting through it. The other problem, is that besides it being it the way, it could be attached from the adhesion's and or just really stuck to the uterine wall. This is called placenta accreta. So thus taking it out can either cause lots of bleeding and require a blood transfusion and/or a possible hysterectomy. The doc, also said my Red blood cell count was not very high, so I might lose to much and it be more of a problem then normal situations. so needless to say, the doc advised us that either I tie my tubes now or Mark does in the fall, but i am not to have another surgery down there, so basically she is telling us that their are more risks involved with this delivery, that it would be wise to stop now. So after praying for a few months now about this, we feel this is our answer to our prayers, as far as whether we are to continue adding numbers to our family or not. This may not sit well with some of you, But most of you now the struggles I've been having and I guess my body doesn't want me to do this anymore, So I guess its time to listen to it. I'm writing this down, so I can have something to remember why we made the decision and how we felt about it, it will still be in our prayers until next week when they do the Amnio to test for the Fetal lung maturity (FLM) and if it is positive, we will be having the baby or at least surgery at 8am, so sometime that morning "Cadyn Bailey" will enter this world. We appreciate all the thoughts and prayers in our behalf, we really do feel the love of our friends and family as we go through this trying time. But we know that as long the Lord is with us and condones our decision, then we are happy. Love you all and will continue to use this to keep you updated on our family...hopefully